Nikki Green M.Ed.Psych.

"I'm a veteran sexual/marital therapist, affairs expert, public speaker and a totally invincible optimist, and I’m devoted to helping people create their Lasting Love relationship. I'm highly dedicated, results-oriented and passionate about what I do. I’m also super excited to have the opportunity to now be doing it with my caring, insightful and enthusiastic daughter Cleo, how much fun is that!"

Internationally renowned, Nikki Green is one of the most highly sought after couples therapists in Hong Kong, where she was born and spent most of her life (other than 8 years in the US and Mexico).

Having grown up in classrooms and at birthday parties that resembled the United Nations, she and her work are deeply cross-cultural.

Well-qualified and highly experienced, Nikki offers psychotherapy, relationship/marital therapy, and sex therapy using an eclectic mix of styles developed over her extensive career. She is renowned for getting to the heart of the matter quickly and profoundly.

Nikki has trained in a variety of theoretical frameworks, including Emotion Focused Therapy (including training with the 'Big 3', John Gottman, Sue Johnson, and Les Greenberg), Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT), and cutting-edge neuroscience. While she continues to study widely, she finds her most illuminating lessons come from her clients and her own relationship.

After more than 25 years of working with a large number of troubled couples, Nikki is an ‘affairs’ expert – she works with individuals and couples to both avoid affairs as well as to heal from them. She is highly dedicated, results-oriented and passionate about her work.

Nikki has a private office in Hong Kong and she offers phone and web-based psychotherapy.

She now divides her time between Hong Kong and the UK and the US.


Professional Training and Membership:

Nikki has a Masters Degree in Psychotherapy and her particular interest (and the topic or her dissertation) is the field of human sexuality and in particular it's link to intimacy and direct correlation to the psychological health of all emotionally committed relationships (regardless of sexual orientation). In addition to the Couple's Therapy training mentioned above, she is also an IHS Certified Health Coach.

She is AASECT qualified (American Association of Sex Educators, Counsellors and Therapists) and is a member of the Psychotherapy Society of Hong Kong, the Asia-Ocenia Federation for Sexology and the Hong Kong Association of Sexuality Educators, Researchers Therapists Limited (HKASERT).

Nikki is a Reiki Master Level Two and a certified Psych K Practitioner.

She is a certified trainer with Gordon Intl., a company that offers conflict resolution training workshops to Parents, Teachers and Corporate Leaders.

She has worked with KELY Support (a local charity offering support to teenagers) in separate capacities; both training the facilitators of their Peer Support Workshops (offered at all secondary schools in HK), and counsellor for their own in-house peer counsellors.

She has also consulted for the Humane Society International working with them on their 'First Strike' project; the link between animal abuse and interpersonal violence, and she also lectured on their behalf.

Nikki is a member of the Hong Kong Psychotherapy Society and she adheres to the The British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy's 'Ethical Framework for Good Practice in Counselling and Psychotherapy'.


What’s Nikki like to work with?

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