'Happily ever after' isn’t a fairytale, it’s your next chapter; one you can begin writing in just 7 weeks.

Whether you're committed but struggling, questioning if they're the one, or still searching — Lasting Love is within your reach.

If you answered yes to any of those questions, you are not alone. For a start, you’re like the thousands of couples we’ve worked with over the last 30 years and we have some very good news for you... 

It really is possible to turn that relationship that feels like a pile of burnt-out embers into the brightly burning phoenix of your soul-mate relationship. One in which you feel alive, appreciated, cherished and safe.   

Sure, we can certainly show you how to do it, but the best news is; we can show you how to do it by yourself! Yes, you read that correctly - you don’t need your partner to come into therapy, take this course, or even read a book! Of course, it would be nice if they did but for many of you that could be a big ask right now.

We’re not going to ask you to do anything that isn’t backed by research, hasn’t worked for countless other couples we’ve worked with, or that Nikki hasn’t benefited from first-hand in creating her own Soulmate relationship.

Research shows that at least 80% of couples have some level of dissatisfaction in their relationships. It’s hardly surprising as we’re in the unprecedented situation in which the Model of Love passed onto us is totally obsolete; it’s failing us miserably.

Most of us saw it completely fail  our parents, who tried to use it to negotiate the imbalance of power both at home and at work. For the first time in history an economic power shift has allowed women to pair-up for love rather than through necessity, BUT MOST OF US NEVER RECEIVED THE TRAINING TO MAKE THIS WORK.

Our  sub-conscious use of that deficient model passed down to us by our parents, has led to an alarming divorce rate of 50%+ and a predilection for infidelity that has understandably destroyed both our own faith, but also sadly the faith of our children. Have they in turn become, for the most part, a generation of commitment-phoebes, determined not to make the same mess out of their relationships that we did, by either not having one or having several at the same time? Is polyamory (which is becoming more popular among the younger generation) their hopeful yet misguided solution to the seemingly impossible task of making a relationship work?

We don’t want to put any pressure on you but we’re not exaggerating when we say the future happiness of humanity depends on us completely redefining and redesigning the modern Model of Love. So that we can be informed enough to be make our relationship work, role-model it to our children, and advise them well.

The good news is we are in a great position to do just that. Today we are so fortunate to be able to call on decades-worth of insightful research – not only the vital research into the secrets of happy, long-term couples, but also from other fields like human sexuality, success, motivation, satisfaction, learning and neuroscience; all of which we’ve drawn on in both our work with couples and the creation of this course.

We totally understand how you may believe the main problem in your relationship is caused by your partner’s critical judgementalism, unsupportive ambivalence, or their inability to listen or understand you, – there was a time when Nikki completely believed that too – over 30 years she certainly witnessed enough of that behavior in her work and in her own past relationships. However, backed by volumes of research, seeing it in action countless times with clients, and having put it into action herself, the empowering truth is; YOU HAVE THE POWER TO SINGLE-HANDEDLY CHANGE THE DYNAMIC OF YOUR RELATIONSHIP!

Yes you heard that right; single-handedly! A relationship is a dynamic system, with both partners constantly reacting to the other; change the way one relates and you’ll totally change the system! It’s a Law of Nature, the Law of Cause and Effect.

You may at this point either be skeptical, especially if you’ve tried working on your relationship but your partner either wouldn’t or couldn’t do the work too, or even see it was necessary. Or you may be thinking “well why the heck is it all up to me?” 

Instead we invite you to instead recognize the power in it.  With consistency and the right skills you have the capacity to be the one who completely sets the tone of the relationship. All you need to do is unlearn the lessons from the unsuccessful relationship model that most of us were sub-consciously taught, and replace it with one that allows us to be much truer to the essence of what it really means to love.  Most of us think Love is a noun, something our partners won’t give us enough of, or something we don't feel enough of towards them.

The truth is that Love is verb, and when we start ‘doing’ it effectively (and we’ll teach you how), you can heal not only your relationship but every relationship you come into contact with. We’ve all heard the expression ‘Love is all it takes’ and most of us understand vaguely what that means, but if you’re willing to work hard, in 7 weeks you’ll understand exactly what that means, and you can turn it into your superpower!

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Welcome! We're mother-daughter powerhouse, Nikki and Cleo.

We’ll be guiding you through this very interactive course that will help you to either create, or re-create your Soulmate relationship. One in which you feel alive, valued, respected, and deeply fulfilled.

Nikki Green, M.Ed.Psych., is an internationally renowned relationship and sex therapist with over 30 years of experience. Having worked with numerous couples, especially those recovering from affairs, Nikki is known for her ability to quickly get to the heart of the matter. She has trained with renowned relationship experts such as John Gottman, Sue Johnson, Esther Perel and Les Greenberg, and continues to study widely to bring the most effective strategies to her clients and courses.

Cleo holds a Doctorate in Clinical Psychology and is passionate about supporting individuals and couples in navigating relationship complexities. With a background in various therapeutic models, including Attachment Theory, CBT, and Emotionally Focused Therapy, she brings a fresh and comprehensive approach to relationship dynamics.

"The whole is greater than the sum of the parts.” – Aristotle

We both love this quote as we feel this sums up our powerful partnership perfectly. One that mirrors the kind of dynamic, connected, and treasured relationship we have, and want to support you in building for yourself. While we are each relationship specialists in our own right, we truly believe that magic happens when we join forces; as a duo, we offer something far greater than either of us could alone.

Together, we've created The Laws of Lasting Love^TM, to help couples rebuild trust, reignite passion, and create a relationship that stands the test of time. We’ve blended heart-based wisdom with science-backed strategies and if you’re open enough we’ll teach you how to spiritually supercharge. After all that’s what Einstein was actually alluding to when he said, “You cannot solve your problems with the same level of thinking that created them.” This course offers practical tools and insights to guide you on your journey from Roommates back to Soulmates.

At The Academy of Lasting Love, we aren’t here to preach from ivory towers. We want to clearly state WE HAVE BEEN THROUGH THE MUD OURSELVES!

We were in the same trenches you feel stuck fighting in today. And it’s from our own deep, personal motivation to really get this whole ‘relationship thing’ right that our philosophy on relationships progressed and this course was created.

And so, in line with our open and honest approach to relationship growth, Nikki’s past experience may offer some insight and comfort:

Halfway through my 30-year career as a couples therapist, my third husband Mike and I went to therapy, and that’s when I saw it for myself: there’s a big difference between therapy that helps a marriage (at best) survive and therapy that helps it thrive.

Despite working with a highly regarded therapist, each session left us more drained and discouraged. We weren’t becoming closer—we were just becoming better roommates. Sadly, this experience isn’t unique, research on traditional couples therapy shows it fails about 75% of the time.

To be honest I was terrified when I looked at the emptiness in his eyes and heard the apathy in his voice -  where had that wonderful man who had once adored me so much gone. Not to mention I was pretty embarrassed that I was a couples therapist and couldn’t manage to get it right in my own relationship! The whole reason I got into couples therapy in the first place was to try and learn the illusive secret to making love last. At that moment I was potentially facing my 3^rd divorce.

That made me take a good hard look at my own work. I asked past clients if our therapy had actually helped them truly reconnect—or just made things more tolerable. What I found was eye-opening: for many of them my doubts were founded, the ones that were still together were surviving more than thriving. But some of them, especially for some reason if they had come in due to infidelity, had managed to create something truly remarkable through our work together, something “much better than it had even been at the start” was phrase I keep hearing over and over again.

So how did this happen? Firstly, it became apparent that all it took was for just one of these partners to be willing to ‘do’ whatever it took ,and for however long to fix things, and that every time it had eventually ‘melted ‘the other partner into loving them again. It would have been easy to assume that the partner willing to do that was the one that had cheated, but sometimes it was actually the one who had been cheated on! The common refrain there was along the lines of “I’m not surprised my partner cheated, I had treated them so badly, either constantly criticizing or ignoring them, I deserved it, it was the wake-up call I needed!”

I also learnt something else, during my interviews, the couples who truly healed weren’t stuck in constantly analyzing their problems. They were mindfully, consistently and efficiently making small acts of kindness—regardless of whether their partner gave anything back or not.

This knowledge changed everything for me. Recognizing that I myself was being a mirror to my husband Mike, when he was nice I was nice and vice versa, I stopped focusing on problem-solving and tit-for-tat, and started focusing on rebuilding emotional “credit” through small, intentional acts of love and connection. The results were incredible. Mike began to soften, we reconnected, and our relationship began to thrive again. We have been each others Soulmate for over 12 happy years now.

You don’t need years of therapy spent reliving painful problems. You just need a proven, practical way to rebuild the connection that brought you together in the first place. We can show you exactly how through this course.

Why spend thousands and invest months, or years, in couples therapy when there’s still a huge chance you’ll either be stuck in an eternal relationship prison of ambivalence or snipping, or get divorced anyway?

There’s a better way forward…

Welcome to our decades-in-the-making, evidence-backed course that in just 7 weeks will give you a revolutionary perspective on love that you won’t find anywhere else.

Since you’re here, you likely well know that divorce can be really expensive - often US $50,000 or more, and in some cases, well over six figures. And while it’s easy to assume things will be better with someone new, the truth is that while first marriages have a 50% divorce rate, second marriages have a 70% divorce rate and for third marriages it’s even higher. So maybe it’s not so much about choosing the wrong person, but rather not having the right tools?

That’s where The Laws of Lasting Love^TM come in. We’re offering a practical, easy-to-follow, and affordable way to get your relationship back on track, without the huge emotional and financial toll of starting over.

So instead of asking, “Is this course worth it?” maybe the better question is: “Can we really afford not to do this?”

Here Are 6 Things That Make The Laws Of Lasting Love^TM One Of A Kind 

The Laws of Lasting Love^TM guides you through understanding the subconcious and ineffective model of love that’s currently sabotaging you and your partner from fully embracing each other’s untapped abilities and holding you back from creating the love story you’ve always dreamed of… one in which you feel understood, supported and deeply valued.

The lessons are given in Cleo and Nikki’s compassionate, honest, heartfelt, and straight-talking-style, that combine evidence-backed psychological research, Eastern wisdom, and the powerful potential of your steadfast commitment and consistent action to manifest a ‘happily ever after’ that’ll rival any storybook ending.

 This journey you’re on will transform your relationship, but be aware…

There’s something special that comes from learning how to bring the best you to your relationship. You start feeling more at ease, confident, and in-love with your whole existence; when you let go of old habits and patterns that no longer serve you, the ripple of positive change extends far further than you’d ever think, and how exciting is that?!

Here's what sets The Laws of Lasting Love^TM apart from other courses:

This Course is Based on the Laws of Nature

How many other people can say their relationship theory is based on the indisputable and unbreakable rules founded by the cosmos? It really is true that when you struggle against what is, you suffer. The Laws of Lasting Love^TM fully recognize and embrace the ancient energetic ebb and flow to life; once we welcome what is, and master how to move within these predetermined boundaries, our relationships both with ourselves and our partners will flourish.

The 7 Laws of Nature on which each Law of lasting Love is based, lay the groundwork for this course, and are essential in creating a healthy and ever-lasting relationship. These 7 laws are really the key to developing authentic, substantial, and sustainable change, both in yourself and your partnership. Once you learn about all 7, you’ll find yourself reaching for their time-honored wisdom every time things get tough. 

Concrete Tools for Real-World Relationships

This isn’t some hokey self-help guide giving you unrealistic strategies and vague advice; The Laws of Lasting Love^TM will walk you through the how, not just the what and why.  It will give you real, actionable guidance to help you make meaningful and powerful change.

Based on evidenced-backed theory and grounded in real-world feasibility, all the tasks and tools have been designed with the turmoil of daily life in mind.

As you move through each step in this course, you’ll work through what’s been holding you back in love, deepen your self-trust, and build honest, caring relationships by showing up in your open-hearted, authentic self.

Game Changing Breakthroughs in Just 7 Weeks – A Toolbox for the Rest of Your Life

This course was developed with quick, yet long-lasting transformation in mind. In as little as 7 weeks, as long as you follow the course material and fill in the exercises, you are guaranteed to make positive waves in your relationship. The tools you’ll learn in this course won’t just improve your marriage, they’ll start enhancing other areas of your life in wonderful ways that you never thought possible, from your boss to your children, positive change starts here.

No Fluff, No BS – Skillful, Exceptional Coaching

We eat, breath, and sleep this stuff; there’s no shying away from the uneasy, and no dancing around the issue. We’re all about leaving you feeling well-equipped, confident, and excited about applying what you learn in each session to your relationship.  

With over 4 decades of couples work between us, we’re not just giving you information to memorize, we’re going to be there with you on the journey; guiding you through The Laws of Lasting Love^TM and supporting you in real-time during our live weekly lessons and Q&A sessions, and within our private Facebook community, so you can get answers to your particular questions, stay motivated, and squeeze all the value you can out of this course.

Two Generations - One Powerful Transformation

What makes this course truly one of a kind is the team behind it; a mother-daughter duo, each with our own depth of expertise and a shared passion for helping couples thrive. Together, we offer something far more powerful than any person working alone; two generational perspectives, two hearts, and one united mission to help you build lasting love. You get two specialists for the price of one—and together, we deliver way more than either of us could single-handedly.

The Invitation to Spiritually Supercharge Your Success

While it’s a story for another time, the manifestation and outline for Laws of Lasting Love^TM came to Nikki as a Divine Download after a week-long spiritual retreat deep in the redwood forests of Northern California.

Based on many personal experiences and the way we choose to lead our lives today, both of us wholehearted believe that something magical happens in life, when you stop trying to control outcome and instead seek help from, and allow The Divine to lead the way. It’s a much less exhausting way to live.

Einstein said a problem cannot be solved by the consciousness that created it, which basically means the ego can’t solve problems that it created. When you look at them closely, most of our relationship problems are in fact caused by our egos. With the weekly prayers we include at the end of each workbook, we are hoping to remind you that when we ask something much larger to help orchestrate life’s symphony for us, it will do so much more artfully than our egos ever can.

A 7-WEEK PROGRAM TO WRITE YOUR OWN 'HAPPILY EVER AFTER'

- ONE THAT STANDS THE TEST OF TIME

Here’s What You Get When You Join The Laws of Lasting Love^TM Course

A Complete Online Relationship Renewer Regimen

This unique course regimen has all that you need to create the relationship of your dreams. Each week you’ll join the live video class and go through the session module which you can access from your phone, tablet, or computer, right from the comfort of your own home. Our course is straightforward, easy to navigate, and user-friendly. You also have lifetime access to all your downloaded materials and the weekly content so you can keep going back as often as you need, we’re always here.

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MONEY BACK GUARANTEE

This course is for you if you are authentically interested and invested in learning the skills to create your lasting love legacy.

Your satisfaction with our course is important to us and so you have a 3-Week money-back guarantee. We know how truly transforming our approach, tools, and method can be for you, if you commit to the work.   

You’re one step away from joining countless others who have created a deep, fulfilling, and revered love that'll last a lifetime.

Here’s what you get when you enroll:

7 Live Video Modules: Based on 7 Laws of Nature and their corresponding Law of Lasting Love to unblock any self-sabotage or unhelpful beliefs and to create deep and rewarding love.

7 Weekly Workbooks: Containing lots of helpful notes about theory discussed in the live modules, transformative material, and entertaining real-life anecdotes to cement your learning.

20+ Transformation Exercises: Create lasting change by applying your cognitive understanding of the content to your relationship and life.

7 Live Q&As: Where you can really personalize your learning, ask any questions you have, and learn from the experiences of your fellow trainees.

Access to our Private Community and a Members-Only Facebook Group: Also on our course platform where you can make comments and ask any questions (for those who prefer not to be on Facebook).

100% Risk-Free Money-Back Guarantee: If you aren’t satisfied within 21 days of the course starting and after completing the content in Weeks 1, 2, and 3, all you need to do is simply send an email along with proof of your completed work and exercises and we’ll refund you your enrollment fee.

Real Customer Support: You’ll not be dealing with useless chatbots and unhelpful AI stand-ins; The A.L.L. Team is made up of real supportive people so rest assured, you’ll be in good hands.

BONUS – Model of Love Blueprint and Boundaries Mini Course: On top of all the amazing resources you get in this course, you’ll also have access to an included mini course that will help you identify your style of attachment, how to overcome related unhelpful behavioral patterns, and how to unblock issues holding us back from establishing healthy boundaries.