Your Marriage Deserves More Than Survival

If you’re reading this, chances are you’ve already tried to fix things; perhaps you’ve read a couple blogs/books, watched some videos on YouTube, or even attended a few couples therapy sessions.

But, you keep having the same arguments, the same disconnected dinners, and the same ache of lying beside someone who feels like a stranger.

You’re not alone, but you are at a crossroads.

Your next decision will determine whether you learn how to build a Soulmate-level marriage that meets your deepest needs, or remain stuck in a prison of bickering, cold silences or quiet resignation, where the pull to seek connection elsewhere only grows stronger.

Why Does Traditional Couples Therapy Fail?

Did you know that 50% of clients don’t make it to their 3^rd session and that couples therapy has a 75% failure rate long-term?

Most couples show up to therapy with the best intentions.

But when each partner is still resentful, defensive, or numb to the pain they’re causing, talking about the problems doesn’t rebuild connection – it actually does more harm than good. As you already know, because that's what you've been doing at home.

Therapists often get couples to open up before either of them really cares enough about the other to be able to listen with an open heart.

It might even feel productive for a while, at least you feel heard and validated by the 3^rd party so the urgency fades. Then everything slides back to “fine.” That word always rings alarm bells for us when we ask how our clients are doing, "Nahh, you can much do better than that, we want you to dream big."

Therapy soothes the crisis, but rarely heals the cause.

You’re not just doing this work for your own marital and personal happiness - you’re doing it for the generations watching you: your children, your community, and the future of human connection itself. When you heal your marriage, everyone who comes into contact with it heals too.

The problem isn’t your relationship. It’s the method your using.
True transformation takes more than talking - it takes structure, discipline, accountability, and tools that re-program both how you love and how you respond when love gets hard.

That’s exactly what The Modern Marriage Method™ delivers.

This Is Your Turning Point

Every day you delay, the emotional distance quietly grows.
The longer you stay stuck in “fine,” the harder it becomes to remember why you fell in love.

Your relationship is like a garden - it’s either growing or dying.
There’s no pause button. Once the downward spiral begins, the fights happen more and more often, and become more and more vitriolic, and the connection keeps eroding until one of you either gives up or looks elsewhere.

This is the moment to fight for your marriage, while there’s still something left to save.

What Makes The Modern Marriage Method™ Different 

1) Structure Creates Change 

The Modern Marriage Method™ combines 7 private coaching sessions with The Laws of Lasting Love™ foundation course - a proven, structured framework that keeps you motivated, accountable and on-track for success, week after week.

Each session builds on the last, so insight becomes action and action grows connection. 

2) Works No Matter What Journey You're On

While it is ideal if couples do this work together, some clients have to start this process alone.

When one person changes how they show up, the whole dynamic shifts.

You’ll choose the path that's right for you:

3) Time-Bound Transformation

Seven sessions. 7-14 weeks. One real chance for lasting love.

We purposefully follow this time-frame as it creates the urgency therapy often lacks. It will keep you focused, engaged, and moving forward. Think of us as your ‘accountability allies’.

One of the main reasons behind our success with couples is that The Modern Marriage Method™ keeps you on track to true transformation, as it’s so easy to put aside online courses or therapy sessions when real life gets in the way.

Instead, we help you stay on target and with a minimum of 7 and maximum of 14 weeks of hard work, you’ll be well on your way to creating a Soulmate relationship that’ll last the rest of your life. It'll also improve your relationship with your kids and help them to relate better in their lives too. When you think about it - it's a small price to pay for such a huge payoff right?

You don’t need to be spending thousands of dollars and months/years in therapy reliving painful problems. You just need a proven, practical way to rebuild the connection that brought you together in the first place. We can show you exactly how.

4) The Course + Coaching Combination

The Workbooks gives you the roadmap. The Recorded Lessons bring it alive. The Private Coaching gives you tailor-made clarity, and the accountability to follow it.
Together, they create unstoppable momentum for real and lasting change.

It's vitally important to complete each of the Lessons and Weekly Workbooks before each of our private sessions, as your answers and any questions you have are what our hour together will focus on.

It’ll take about about 2-3 hours to complete the Workbook and the Lessons are approximately 30-45 minutes. So, you’re looking at 4.5 hours either weekly or biweekly to not only save your relationship but turn it into the one of your dreams. Whilst keeping your family together and strengthening it too. People spend more time than that at the gym. or on hobbies.

5) Designed for Real-World Relationships 

We specialize in high-stress, high-stakes relationships - affairs, emotional distance, big fights, expat strain, and near-divorce situations. This can work, even if your spouse has moved out. We've also helped couples who have tried and failed at marital therapy in the past. This isn’t theory. It’s transformation for the marriages that feel almost beyond repair. 

What You’ll Experience Week by Week 

A 7-WEEK PROGRAM TO WRITE YOUR OWN 'HAPPILY EVER AFTER'

- ONE THAT STANDS THE TEST OF TIME

Each private session mirrors one of the seven weeks of The Laws of Lasting Love, so every insight is immediately put into practice. 

Week 1

While talking to each other about your problems right now feels so necessary, at least for one of you, it’s actually much more harmful than helpful. Which is one of the reasons why couple’s therapy has a 75% failure rate long-term.

In this first week we’ll give you some tools to stop this destructive behavior, so you can create more fertile ground on which to begin to rebuild connection and goodwill, the foundation of a true Soulmate relationship.

Our realistic, down-to-earth approach fully understands that you and/or your partner may not be each other’s greatest fans right now, so we’ll help you to embrace a very different perspective of them, which will make ‘loving them back’ much easier to want to do.

And finally, because 'if you aim at nothing, you will hit it every time’, we help you to create a very clear vision of exactly what you want your relationship to look like. We’ll also give the powerful technique we use to help you spiritually supercharge the manifesting of this exciting and fulfilling goal.

Week 2

At least 80% of couples experience difficulties in their relationship, and when asked if they’d like a relationship like their parents had, almost 100% of them say “no thanks!”

Which is why in this second week we help you to clearly see the destructive, outdated models you have been subconsciously conditioned to use, and replace them with a much more successful ‘conscious model for modern relationships’. One that would make your kids say “heck yeah” if they were ever to be asked that same question.

Most of us think love is a noun, something our partners are failing to give us enough of, but in reality, it’s a verb. Want more love, give more love. It sounds so simple right? But we get that many of you have little desire to do that right now - that doesn’t matter. You don’t need desire; you need re-programming for love! All you've got to do is consistently and intentionally follow the steps we give you and we promise you, sooner or later you will begin to feel more love - and your partner will begin to feel more loved.

Week 3

So, after the Honeymoon phase wears off what really gets in the way of love? In a nutshell we do! In this third week we’ll help you to see exactly how you’re doing that and what to do about it. So often, when our relationship is suffering, we like an anchorless ship, lost in a stormy sea. We know things are not going right, but it’s hard to get good perspective, let alone a game-plan on what we can do to change things.

You will see just how much power you truly have - how you can single-handedly turn this ship around by identifying your innate responses, learning how to control your reactions, and choosing to act from your authentic self instead. While this can sound daunting, our step-by-step approach makes this work clear and easy to follow.

Also, have you ever wondered how you can get your partner or kids to change? We’ll give you great insight about change and also the skinny on how to positively effect it.

Week 4

This week we teach you how to take loving to a whole new level. For most of us, once the Honeymoon chemicals have worn off, the odds of making our partners feel truly and consistently loved are about as high as winning the lottery twice in a row. Not surprising really, as most of us never learned how.

You’ve really got to know someone to love them, and while many of us feel we know this person we’ve lived with for so long, your results of our insightful assessment questionnaire about that may prove surprising to many of you.

Don’t worry though, we’re going to help you become virtuosos at the art of both skillfully giving, receiving, and encouraging even more Soulmate-style love.

Week 5

As the saying goes - opposites attract. While we do gravitate towards people we have something in common with, generally, we fall in love with people who can 'complete us', who have strengths we lack and who subconsciously challenge us to grow the un-grown parts of ourselves.

In this fifth week we see how quickly the valuing of those differences disappears, and how ironically, at tremendous cost to both connection and goodwill, we go about trying to change our partners to be more like us.

And when we can’t, we’ll see how one or both of us usually looks elsewhere for less challenging and seemingly more rewarding pursuits.

Not only will we give you the tools to reconnect with your partner, instead of being caught up in a whirlwind of excessive entitlement or self-silencing submission, we’ll help you to start lovingly putting down the boundaries that are required to comfortably maintain intimacy on a 24-7 basis, which is one of the requisites of Soulmate love.

Week 6

Once familiarity sets in, career and parenting demands increase, and our ability to successfully repair the inevitable fissures that happen between us decreases - cracks in intimacy start to appear and only deepen with time.

This week we’ll see how one or both of us usually looks elsewhere for more appreciative, less challenging, and more stimulating company. Regardless of whether it’s romantic, erotic or purely friendship-based, we’re usually sharing more intimacy (in-to-me-see) with others than we are with our partners at this point.

The external fulfillment of these emotional needs leaves us less and less inclined to reach for them from our partner, and leaves the relationship more and more susceptible to emotional or physical affairs.

In this module we’ll explore exactly what infidelity is, how to heal from it if need be, and how to affair-proof your relationship for the future, by showing you the best ways to rekindle that fire for each other, and how to keep it burning so you can enjoy a fulfilling, erotically-intimate connection for decades to come. 

Week 7

In our last week together, we will be giving you all the tools and resources you’ll need to continue the positive momentum you’ve created over the past 6 sessions and rock your lasting love relationship!

You’ll learn more about healthy, loving, boundaries, and the crucial role vulnerability plays in consistently eliciting a more empathetic and caring response from your partner.

We’ll give you a highly effective and easy to remember formula for making requests for help or change, in productive and extraordinarily motivating ways.

We’ll also teach you the potent art of apologizing when you’ve done something wrong, or even just inadvertently upset your partner, in a way that’s less of a challenge to your ego and more likely to result in deeper healing and more closeness.

Lastly, we’ll explore how vital the act of appreciation is in making a relationship truly flourish and we’ll help you build those crucial skills.

These are all key pieces to the puzzle, without them, a Soulmate connection is impossible.

After Week 7, you can schedule a complimentary and optional 30-minute Sustained Success Session to ensure your transformation lasts.

Why 7-14 Weeks Matters

Most couples stop therapy right after the pain subsides - usually around session 3 or 4.

That’s like quitting rehab after the fever breaks. The crisis might’ve calmed down, but the underlying patterns remain.

Our weekly structure keeps you moving through the discomfort, until change becomes habituated. Because consistency, not comfort, is what heals relationships.

What You Get (and What It’s Worth)

• 7 private 1-hour coaching sessions
• Lifetime access to all the materials you download from The Laws of Lasting Love™ course and 6-month access to the course videos ($788 value - free)
• Complimentary and optional 30-minute 'Sustained Success Session' that you can schedule after completing your work with us. 
• Personalized accountability and guidance for up to 14 weeks.
• The option for periodic 'maintenance check-ins' at our standard rates. We no longer work with couples outside of the Modern Marriage Method as we feel it's a waste of both their time and ours.

For Expat Marriages

Living abroad magnifies every marital stressor: isolation, identity loss, and distance from support networks.

Expat couples face significantly higher risks of emotional and physical affairs, and few therapists understand those dynamics.

Nikki Green has helped expat couples across continents rebuild trust and connection for over 30 years. She understands the unique pressures of cross-cultural life and helps couples turn that instability into growth.

Cleo, who also happens to be Nikki's daughter, grew up in Hong Kong, giving her a unique perspective into expat life. She has received in-depth training that defines her work with expat and immigrant couples.

Dr. Cleo Andersen-Green

Holds a Doctorate in Clinical Psychology and is passionate about supporting individuals and couples in navigating the complexities of relationships. She brings a decade of advanced training in relationship dynamics and a warm, direct style that helps clients feel seen, empowered, and inspired.

Nikki Green, M.Ed.Psych.

An internationally recognized relationship and affairs expert with over 30 years’ experience, specializing in expat marriages and infidelity recovery. Nikki has an time-honed ability to cut through confusion quickly and helps couples move from crisis to reconnection.

Together, they created The Modern Marriage Method™ - a structured, results-oriented alternative to traditional marriage counseling.

The Choice That Changes Everything 

You have three options right now:

1 - Do nothing.
Hope things improve on their own. They won’t and the distance will only pull you further apart.

2 - Try more of what hasn’t worked.
Talk therapy, temporary truces, another year of “fine.” Relief without repair.

3 - Choose transformation.
Commit to 7-14 weeks of structured, evidence-based work that reignites love and rebuilds trust into a legacy of love that lasts.

The next 7-14 weeks will define the rest of your life.

We don’t want to put any pressure on you but we’re not exaggerating when we say the future happiness of humanity depends on as many of us as possible completely redefining and redesigning the Modern Model of Love. So we can be informed enough to make our relationships work, role-model it to our children, and influence all who see us interact.

Let’s begin your transformation!